The power of vulnerability | Brené Brown

Duration: 20 minutes and 50 seconds
Published: January 03, 2011
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Views: 7.82 million
Channel: TED
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http://www.ted.com Brené Brown studies human connection -- our ability to empathize, belong, love. In a poignant, funny talk at TEDxHouston, she shares a deep insight from her research, one that sent her on a personal quest to know herself as well as to understand humanity. A talk to share.

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